7 Ways To Get Over Heartache

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It’s impossible

There’s no way to get over it, so just suffer– I’m kidding!

There’s always hope.

It’s hard to follow someone else’s advice when you’re heartbroken.

In the end you know as well as I that it’s best to be around friends who care when you feel brokenhearted, but here are some suggestions that might help ease your pain.

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1. Type “How to get over Heartache” into YouTube search and see what comes up

Sometimes it’s hard to find a YouTube video that isn’t sale-sy, but honestly I’m good at finding something useful on the YouTubes.  When it does happen I suggest you binge watch the whole series of videos you found until you get something out of it and start to feel better or learn a new way to cope with your heartache.

2. Realize you will get over it… Say what?

So many ladies and not enough time! at least that is how the voice inside my head sees it when I feel like shit because my heart’s been broken into smithereens.  Honestly, I’d much rather act like a tragic Romeo or Tristan character than listen to that tiny voice that tells me to buck up and get over it, but every once in a while it presents a solid case.

For example, I remember once I heard the voice inside me say, “You got over that other girl that made you lay in your bed in the fetal position for six months straight, so you can definitely get over this other pretty face, can’t ya?  In fact there’s a slew of girls you’ve met in your life that you don’t have a crush on anymore, so chew on that, buster.”

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Like I said it’s hard to listen to this voice of reason where the truth is so blunt and I would much rather pity myself and go die than listen to this voice of encouragement inside myself explaining that I have more life to live and more women to meet, but alas, this voice really does have a good point even if I don’t ever want to see it.

3. Seek professional help

I’ve sought so much professional help, in the last eighteen years specifically, I should have my own degree in psychology.  Some people say they can’t afford to see a shrink (most girls I thought I wanted to date said this… Hmmmmm) but that shouldn’t stop you from begging, stealing and doing whatever you can to get the money for a professional’s advice.  We do live in an advanced civilization and not an ancient one so suffering in depression is not something you need to do.  You know I’m right, playa!

4. Go out and about

Try a cafe where people are and allow yourself to observe others.  Drink coffee, eat a pastry and live a little.  Most people will look more happy than you are, this is a given, but it should encourage you in the end.  For example, can you smile at a happy couple flirting with each other because you know deep down you can have what they have in the future.  It’s nicer than scowling at them because you’re jealous don’t you think?  It helps to be happy for others that have what you hope to have soon… Love.

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5. Call your friend

There was one time in my life when I was so heartbroken a friend called me on the phone and found me crying.  Then not too long after that a different friend showed up at my place and the door was open and he found me sitting on the floor crying.  Yes, I sought professional help, but I was fucking things up by isolating myself and not calling my friends to talk about my heartache.  Not all friends can give you good advise or a shoulder to cry on, so choose wisely and open up to your BFF only!

6. Join a gym

There’s nothing like this decision.  When you go the gym you’ve basically decided you’re going to change yourself.  When you work out you change your state of being and the way you felt before you worked out is not the same as after working out.  It’s strange to think about, but it’s true, so if you don’t have a gym membership stop reading this blog post and go get one, now!

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7. Stop talking to the person who broke your heart

You’re doing yourself a favor when you stop engaging with the one who is rejecting you.  For some reason calling them or texting them will push them away even more especially if you want to argue and stuff.  Realize there’s nothing you can do but go and talk to new people and get to know someone else.  You really can do it even though it seems a mission impossible.

I’m sorry you experienced heartache

There’s nothing worse really in my book, but you won’t die and you’re going to need to start doing something once you realize you’re still alive and kicking despite this unfortunate circumstance. 

Take a baby step today and do something fun. 

Call a shrink or a friend. 

You just need to try to feel something different than awfulness, that’s all, so take a baby step. 

You can do it, good looking!

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